Fitness is a bit like brushing your teeth.
If you brush, your teeth stay looking sharp.
If you don’t, they start to look crusty after a couple days.
I always wondered why I LOVE working out.
Why do I consistently treat myself to the daily grind, pushing and pulling weights, almost everyday of my life. Is something wrong with me mentally? Some would dare say, ‘yes’.
No really, I can’t go more than 3 days without sweating, and feeling the burn or my body starts shutting down, a slow and dangerous crawl. It’s that ‘energized’ feeling I get, like a drug, I must do, religiously.
And if I don’t workout, negativity starts filling the air.
Before you know it, I’m rattling off non-sense at my wife, the kids and my dog. I’m human.
Sound familiar to you?
Fitness (physical activity) has become a personal commitment, a kind of challenge to myself, an oath of oaths to myself – to stay as strong as I can be. Because my family depends on me. A personal core value.
If I CHOOSE to skip a workout, slack on the eating – who am I really doing harm to?
Some people say it’s selfish to want it all. Well, I want it all. I want to be healthy, fit and strong. So I don’t go down the road of spiraling death cycle of despair, backaches, headaches and negative, self-inflicted mind bugs.
Fitness is like brushing teeth to me.
Which leads me to this…see if you get the message.
I recently got a text from a client, (let’s call him Joe) who has done tremendously well (lost a lot of fat) in our program in the past. Ate really great. Did his off-day workout homework. And he felt like a million bucks.
But here recently, it’s been extremely ‘difficult’ for him to make his appointments.
First, it was coming in late. Two weeks later, turned out to be showing up 15minutes before his session ended. Now, it seems Joe has given up on himself. He texted ‘I’m quitting for a while. Just too busy right now’. Perhaps, for more important matters he feels are of greater priority – than his health.
And if I was just an average ‘Joe’ counting rep trainer, (no pun intended), I probably wouldn’t care.
But I’d be doing a dis-service to him as his personal trainer and accountability coach. Right?
But you see, I care, as most successful people do, about my customers/clients who’s well-being depend on me. It’s in my blood to want to be the person you turn to.
So I texted back, told Joe ‘you’re not quitting’. And continued asking myself, ‘where did I fail with him’? Can’t I just brush his teeth for him?
My daughter is 4 years old. She started brushing her teeth now. So I answered myself, ‘No’.
Moral of this story is…
You can BE anything you want to be. But the ‘catch’, is it must be something you commit to 100%. Things will always get in the way. Nothing will be perfect ALL the time. Your plans will be disrupted some days. But you gotta just ‘back it up 5, and kick it again’, as my dad always says.
Furthermore, LOTS of people spend their entire life chasing money, only to spend it on getting their health back. Before it’s too late.
In the end, their life was devoted to making as much money as they could, only to spend it all on health care bills, never truly enjoying the life of happiness/health they wanted.
You’ve got to really set in your mind why you want to do something. Go through the temporary pain to get there.
Your ‘WHY’ must be so dang strong, there’s nothing that can stop you.
I recommended to Joe, we sit down and talk. Hopefully he reads this. And we re-establish his commitment to his health. I’ll keep you posted to what turns out.
What do you have to say? I’m curious what comments you have for Joe. Or maybe you’ve been here before, as we all have. Any feelings you have about Joe or yourself, and how you overcame ‘life’ interruptions in regards to your fitness routine.
I’d love for you to share those comments below.
If you never quit/give up, YOU WIN.
- Jerremy
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